Basic things in communication:
Visual(Body Language)- 55%
Vocal – 38%
Verbal – 7%
While communicating via two way interaction,the body language is important than other things.It will show that you Not interested,interested,not believe him or nor,got boredom like that.So we have to concentrate on Body Language while communicating,that means u have to concentrate body language on both speaking and listening.
Sherley asked for 6 volunteers,3 from boys and 3 from girls.
She bring them to out of the hall.Then after some time a pair(A boy and girl) entered into the hall.
1) They were walking from opposite side,facing the one and other.Then they were seen for a two seconds and hesitated for a moment and moved in their way.
2) Then after that another pair was entered,also facing each other from oppsite side.
He : Hi ***
She: Hi ***
He : How are u?
She : I am fine,Wat abt u?
He : I am fine,I have some works,Bye see you later.
Then both of them headed their way.
3) Then another pair was entered into that hall from opposite side,
He : Hi ***s! How are u?
She : Hey,I am fine.
He : Did u see Madrasapatnam movie?
She : No!
He : Shall we go?
She : Yes,Sure da.
Then they headed towards the theatre.That’s it.
What we learned from this 3 pairs.
1)They don’t want to speak,know each other,may be enemy,hesitated to speak,don’t want to interact,have some urgent work,don’t want to recall.
2)They were friends,known,known the names of friends,Hi-Bye friednship.
3) They were well known,best friends.
All those guys used the basics parts of communications and told their relationship between them.
Activity-2 (Chinese Whisper Problem)
Sherley asked 5 volunteers,and sent all of them out of the class room.
Then she called the first person inside the hall and read out a following passage
A sports car is going from north to south.A truck is going from
south to north.At the junction the sports car turn left,the
truck turn right and the sports car accelerate before the crash.
this the message first person got.Then he have to convey this message to next coming guy.And then that repeats.
2nd guy: A sports car is coming from north to south,Railway track is there.
3rd guy: A sports car is coming from north to south.
4th guy: A person u are!
5th guy: Wat a person u?
This the way that the above passage is converts to “Wat a person u?”.
How to Give Feedback
Effective feedback consists of following
• Behavioral & Description
• Impact on this behavior
Take a situation that,Suppose a person in front of your seat in theatre may be stand up often and irritate you.For this u have to give the feed back like this.
Behavioral & Description
When u stand up you hide the screen.
I feel disturbed and frustrated.
Impact on this behavior
So my neck getting pain.
So I request you to not stand up and hide the screen.
This is the best way to give the feed back.
We are all want to be higher position in job or game or anything!
What are all we have to do is
We do our job as much as we can?
Don’t interrupt others?
Don’t spoil their rights?
This is Assertive.Most of us don’t want to say ‘NO’ most of the time?
Those guys have to learn to say sorry?
This is how we understand the other’s feelings and encourage a person,who is in sorrow!
This is when are also sit with those person,who feel sad and share our feelings.
These things were happened in the second day.